Reconciliation in life is a myth

Reconciliation statement is a part of accounting system. No accounting system stands as valid if reconciliation statement does not reconcile. Life is just like a complicated accounting system. Every one of us always tries hard to reconcile the trial-balance of life. But in most of the case it is discovered in strangeness not reconciling. Every debit has a simultaneous credit. We all try our best to post each and every episode of our life in perfect accounting head yet reconciliation statement of life never reconciles. Even a reliable accountant cannot solve the mystery. Years after years may have passed in deep scrutiny aiming at to detect the accounting flaw, everything goes in vain. So, reconciliation statement in life is an absurdity, always irreconcilable. An in-look quest may help us solving the mystery.

Flowing life is always eventful. Events take place in our life solicited or unsolicited. If we try to account for those events in reality the requisite answers in many cases are confusing and contradictory. Naturally question of reconciliation stands before evasiveness and we are left in the lurch. Everything gets jolted and knotted. Should be accepted then that the reconciliation of life will remain inside the boundary of non-reconciliation? What is the actual fallacy behind it?

Life never moves in a straight line. It moves in a serpentine way. When any individual takes an untravelled serpentine path of life to go ahead unwanted and unthoughtful troubles wait for him in every turn to greet him. Known problems are solvable. But the formula to solve unknown problems is yet to be discovered. As soon as problems of life start shooting troubles to us the chance of reconciliation in life is set far off. As soon as chances of reconciliation are threatened to be found out ultimate despondence engulfs our mind and we discover the life in meaninglessness. A deep melancholy overcasts our mind in complete uncertainty. Rhythmless life appears to be colourless to us. And who does not know colourless life is a burden to us?

But we forget a very simple word. Reconciliation factor is not within our grip. It is circumstances oriented. Reconciliation is matter of chance in a life. It is better to go ahead with common understanding that all the sums of life can never be solved. In any case if it gets reconciled let it be taken as exception and exception can never be the rule. The pain of non-reconciliation fuels our spirit to go for reconciliation and we struggle for reconciliation with our best effort. An endless and untiring try for it flourishes our values of life. We come to understand that search for reconciliation in life is a pleasure because it never allows us to give in to destiny. The attempts for better reconciliation open new chances to us. New openings, new opportunities are always encouraging to us because it always turns alive our curiosity and inquisitiveness. And a curious man never foresees any termination so sharp.

Despite knowing it well that reconciliation in life is a complete myth we must try hard for the best possible reconciliation in life without giving any tolerance to frustration. Conceptual concurrence is very uncommon in our day to day life. This stands as a barrier in the field of reconciliation. It is the irrefutable truth of life. So, we should seek reconciliation of life in total negativity of reconciliation.     

Greater difficulty, greater pleasure

A life is full of hurdles because every road of life is initially untravelled.  The unknown hurdles are always strange to us. We are acquainted with the way how to overcome the known hurdles. Someone of us try to bypass the problems. But to bypass problems hangs heavy on us. So it is better to challenge the problems in every walk of life and problems being challenged are the basic formula to sort out the problems. To be afraid of encountering the problems magnifies the gravity of the problems. So we are supposed to find out the root of the problems and once the root being traced out problems are definitely to be solved without giving us any psychological pain. To be flinched back at the sight of problems is always cowardice and cowards die many times before their death. It means that a coward is always a defeated soldier because of in dearth of courage.

Problems appear again and again in turns in a moving life. The meaning of a life stands completely meaningless if it were a smooth sailing. Turbulence is the rhythm of life and it is remain unfelt for ever unless greater difficulties do not come close to our life with a terrifying threat to shatter our life. As life is a priceless possession to all of us we never allow it to be ruined out of strong fear to challenge the problems in life. The more we go deep into the problems, the more we will find an inexplicable pleasure to unearth the cause of the problems. Problems are the rainbow of life. The beauty of these is really enchanting.

When we encounter problems we get bewildered. An unknown fear comes down on us heavily. In many cases we accept the problems insurmountable. As soon as this idea becomes deep seeded within us it is the signal that we will be lost in the battles of life. Without being unnerved at the sight of a problem we should analyze the causes of it in deep thought and this will show us the way how to sort out the problem, may not be at ease but at the cost of sweat and tears. No sooner has the problem being solved than we have a shy of relief and we can find out so many resultant ways to sort out other problems too because they are the isotopes in nature. The origin of the problems is same. It is nothing but fear and it is reasonless typical state of mind. Can’t be done magnifies our fear. Winners never show their back to problems, they face it with courage and determination and they get out of successfully. On the other hand losers escape from the problems citing no reason as such. It is fear what don’t allow them to combat with problems. Naturally their confidence gets nosedived to the ground of no confidence and they are absolutely lost in every challenge of life.

We are pleased achieving success. But success is not a quick fix. It is the best outcome of long chained struggle. When we struggle problems appear before us in renewal because success without problems is a utopian concept. In every step of success pitchforks of problem do exist to retardate the growth and possibilities of success. And thus we generally get frustrated. It is frustration that demoralizes us and we dare to go ahead in the road to success. But tearing out the conspired cobweb of problems when we achieve success our mind is deluged with peerless pleasure. We are atop on the pinnacle of confidence. As soon as our confidence level goes high up no problem is considered as unsolvable. Problems being solved and hurdles being crossed time and again are the origin of greater pleasure. I congratulate problems converting our life really beautiful and meaningful.               

Happiness bottled, Happiness shackled

Who does not want to be happy? It is an axiomatic truth to enjoy happiness in any turn of life. Happiness leads our mind to an inexplicable joy. That a man struggles round the day and night is simply because of finding out the real flashing point of happiness. How does one explore this? It is the million dollar debate. Opinions and counter opinions run in the midst of crosscurrent of thinking. Naturally the solution varies from man to man according to their mental set up. Yet it can be concluded as the synopsis of the debate that true emancipation in immense bindings brings happiness in perfect conception. But perfect happiness is the resultant outcome of mental peace and mental solace.         

How does any individual achieve mental peace? What is the fountain mouth of mental peace? Is there any specific formula to achieve that? When these questions come up in our mind we get confused because of not finding out the actual blueprint of it. Mental unrest sometimes misleads us and it yields out of misconception. Happiness and peace is the replica of each other. But one thing is very much sure that mental happiness follows mental peace. In absence of mental peace happiness will be a remote chance to achieve.

Mental peace originates from endless love to all who are unhappy, have-nots, extreme suffering stricken, live at the mercy of open sky, terribly exploited because of the social system. Love is not easy to cater. A soft and passionate mind is the prime requisite of loving others selflessly. An unwept mind at the plight of others can never love. To love others is by far the best human quality. Sometimes it is experienced that someone is trying to love but can’t. As a way of explanation it can be reasoned that he does not love his own soul. A man who cannot love his own identity or dignity can never love others. The reason can be simplified as that he is unaware of the definition of true love. The more we can minimize the difference with others irrespective of cast or creed, the more we will be lovable to others. If anyone wants to love the downtrodden he must be a down to earth man. They should allow feeling with sound reasoning that he is my man. Then credibility is a vital factor in the field of love.

In present scenario happiness is changing its properties and those are not at all compatible to its basic philosophy. Happiness is, as if, a decaying moon now. Mental peace is running in paucity now. Love is now enveloped in abstractness and strangeness. Naturally happiness is losing its glorified beauty. Today’s society and social elements are not at all becoming to basic human characteristics. Known things are becoming unknown, known pictures are becoming unknown and we are becoming perplexed to trace out the compartment of true happiness within us. A searching look endorses that we are becoming human robot and our existence and feelings have been robotized. Happiness, love and peace are being regulated with a push in a distant remote. Now there arises the relevant question on the propriety of that remote.

Why do love, happiness and peace become a rare phenomenon in the present social scenario? Why does happiness become bottled? Why does it shackled? The answer of these questions can never be bypassed now in anyway. The situation is demanding a logical reply with absolute validity. There is no room for dispute that happiness is also becoming a commodity as a rule in the world of consumerism. There is obviously certain complexity in such contention. How can an abstract quality become a commodity? Happiness, love, peace etc are the abstract state of mind. These are to be perceived with emotion, felling and sensitiveness. These qualities do not have any commodity shape. Yet consumer world compels those to treat as commodity. This is a real irony.

As soon as happiness is accepted as commodity it is bottled up. The free movement of it gets restricted. The moment it is taken as commodity the flavour of it is reduced. The commodity world approves that we all buy happiness. It moves in terms of currency. In the present world the concept of true happiness in perfect emancipation is a counterfeit concept. It does not have any value in materialistic world. True happiness in emancipation is a philosophical term in biasness. Realistic world and materialistic world are set at poles apart. Reality has taught us to treat everything as commodity. There is n sense of switching over from this concept.

To be very frank, Rule of Profit is the fundamental mechanism of today’s society. In the world of consumerism everything is being assessed in terms of profit. It has taught us not to move even little bit if there is no sign of profit generation. It is strange to note that even human understanding and human values are not barred from commodity concept. Previously change was slow. But now that is in rocket speed. The layers of our thinking are being changed abruptly without taking into consideration that if human values are moral values are downgraded the society will suffer a lot. In a word happiness is shackled. The commodity world will decide how a man will be happy. It is the preaching of this world that better think of your happiness only. The thinking of collective interest is a baseless concept.

But own happiness can never be achieved if collective happiness is denied. Happiness always want free movement. The bottled happiness or shackled happiness is far from being reasoned. Basic sense of values is eternal. They are hardly changed with the changing world. So, happiness is only of mine is a wrong notion. None can captivate for his own only. Own happiness can only be gained when happiness for all especially of the depressed and downtrodden class in deep love is restored with full glamour. If it is interpreted otherwise peace, happiness and love will be permanently abolished from our living world.