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Friday, September 12, 2014

There is no terminal point of relationship



We are all human being. The main stream of our remaining alive is to promote relationship in every foot of our life. A man who is incapable of promoting relationship plunges into deep monotony. Life appears to be charmless to him without an iota of doubt. How to build up relationship is an art. It is to be acquired in relentless effort. Relationship never stands on the bed of self interest. It requires a liberalized mind in total frankness to promote relationship in absolute perfection. A mind being captivated within the walls of narrow interest is averse to promote relationship. It is because that the owner of such a mind always takes care of his own interest bypassing the interest of others. The charm of relationship grows in high esteem in the midst of breaking and rebuilding of relationship. Once relationship is broken in anyway everyone tries hard to rebuild that in reconstructing mood. As none of us wants to go in isolation we are very much keen on making relationship at the expenses of any. Naturally in case of breaking of relationship we are psychologically wounded and that wound is enough painful than any physical wound.
The relationship being broken because of encountering any strained circumstances, we feel much pain. Relationship is not built in a day. It is built up out of experiences. Sometimes it is set afar only because of misunderstanding or miscommunication. As soon as it is strained we get collapsed inside because it is established out of long walking in the midst of climax and anti-climax and we are afraid of any sort of termination of relationship. There is no room for dispute that congenial relationship always emits a sweet fragrance and it is the basic fuel to lead a life in peace and harmony.
Common understanding and cohesion tie up intricately the relationship with others in aesthetic senses. It is not easy to keep understanding always indented. Understanding never breaks if we can extend our tolerance limit. If mutual trust remains not fragile the power of endurance is extended. Mutual trust and mutual understanding are the fundamental foundation of keeping relationship ever alive with no admission to Intensive Care Unit. Knowing all the usefulness of maintaining a healthy relationship with no discontinuation it gets strained because of our own indiscretion and unthoughtful activities. It is obviously painful and we are dejected within because of our thinking being spoiled.
Life is a strange stage. We are the actors and co-actors in the drama of life. Relationship is there a variable product changing with the nature of the circumstances. So ups and downs in relationship are a very natural phenomenon. Need of relationship is an axiomatic truth because relationship broadens the length of consideration in our mind. Relationship builds after giving an untiring effort of years together. Because of some obvious reasons it may come on the verge of breaking or break. Without giving up hope for a renewal of relationship in future we should again try to rebuild it in full enthusiasm. If we go for a scrutiny it will reveal that the relationship being strained or broken is out of flimsy grounds with no such gravity of merit in it. Then why should we consider that relationship has a terminal point. It is absolutely a biased and orthodox notion. To kill the relationship is the matter of a fraction of a second. But promotion of relationship is a continuous process with no terminal point as such. So long we will have our existence in earth; the importance of relationship will be undeniable.
Relationship promotes cultural bonding. Cordial exchange of thoughts and ideas in the ground of relationship fertile our conceptual base. Once the conceptual base of ours gets strong and emboldened; new innovative and creative expositions as the resultant outlet is inevitability by default. A man never survives better without creative outlets. So, the viability of relationship in everyone’s life can never be underscored. The capital of our survival is building up relation in each and every moment and it keeps us alive in total freshness. Those who want to think the termination of relationship under any consideration they live in a fool’s paradise. They should always keep it in their mind that relationship brings happiness and pleasure in life.            
              

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