From no to yes – a long way to go

The word “NO” is very strange. Once saying “NO” we can easily avoid our responsibility and commitment. “NO” dilutes the gravity of the situation because man concerned does not want to take up the challenges that the situation demands. Challenges of life are very hard to be dealt with in order to transform that into success. If anybody is afraid of encountering the challenges of life the word “NO” is enough for them to shake off the undertaking. Can’t be done, can’t be possible are very usual identification of those who want to retreat, prestigious or mark of ignominy time will say. But the word “NO” renders us temporary face saving. But cowards take it up as a sincere practice. The word “YES” is distinctively uncommon in the life of cowards. But every one of us should keep it in mind that cowards prefer safe retreatment to avoid hazards of life. But they are always the icon of defeated soldiers in the tough battle of life and renewal of defeats sends the chances of victory in their life in permanent banishment.

We are really tired of listening to the word “NO” in every walk of our daily life. Sometimes we feel that we are the inhabitants of the world representing only “NO”. Hope, Expectation, Achievements are all alien phenomenon in this world. “NO” is basically the only element that can be sold effortlessly. No salesmanship or craftsmanship is required to that. The influence of “NO” is eventually so dominating in our life that we are almost forgetting the chances of “YES” in our life. Resultantly pessimism influences us to a broader perspective. Pessimism is the standing phenomenon what can defer the opportunities and possibilities of “YES” to the zone of no return. As a consequence of that we are steadily becoming the victim of utter despondence and dejection. Beyond doubt, a dejected soul is lost by default in the tug of war of life. If the attitude to life is lost because of encountering so many “NO”s in every step, the meaning of life can never be outlined in any way. That is the final tragedy in everybody’s life.

Now the fundamental question is how we can search out “YES” tearing out the confusing trap of “NO”. Spineless people are very much inclined to say “NO” in order to bypass the hazards what he may have to encounter saying “YES” in place of “NO”. But one thing what we hardly take into account that “NO” promotes our alienation from the common people. It is an axiomatic truth that common people drive our life in momentum and it is noted as forward movement with marked positivity ensuring our life in perfect composition. So, we are to demolish the wall of “NO” before us with a blast of the dynamite of “YES”. It is the missionary task of all of us and we cannot avoid it because it is nothing but a suicidal approach. It is a great lesson to learn how to say always “YES” even at the grimmest stage of life.

It requires enormous courage to say “YES”, well barricaded by “NO”. If anyone is interested to say “YES” boldly in all compositions of life he should encourage it as a habit. The word “YES” remains unreachable to us in many cases because to say “YES” has not been practised thoroughly in all considerations. We strangely forget that the word “YES” is the basic recipe of success with all senses. When unsuccessful men say, the work is too hard to do the successful men react with a saying, the work is hard, but can be done. Men very much concerned with ifs and buts before the initiation of a work can hardly fight for success. But men who are least concerned with ifs and buts in the run of life touch the rope of success at the teeth of all oppositions. No impediment appears before them as the Himalayan invincibility in all propositions. So to “YES” for greater cause or interest is the basic learning of a life.

Those who hardly want to plunge into the depth of thoughts are under the impression that “YES” and “NO” are the two simple words and can be told at ease. But this conception is illusive and does not have any base as such in the ground of reality. From “NO” to “YES” is a long way to go and it is not a cake walk at all. To mark optimism in every step with a strong attitude of “YES” is not an easy task because “NO” always back-pulls us. “NO” always threatens us out of apprehensive dangers and very few of us overrule this unseen but well felt phobia of threatening because of unknown fear. This trauma of fear is deep seeded. So, at the very outset we should learn the art how to come out from the clutches of fear. No magic wand is available to do that with a simple and single stroke. It is a continuous battle and we are to win in this battle holding endless courage and spirit in our mind. Continuous fight with iron determination deposits courage within us pie after pie and beyond doubt it’s a long way to go to come out from the grip of fear. Once fear is dispersed the word “YES” finds free access to rule unchallenged the world of our senses. It is the only science. There stands no option however we may try.

We are all born to win. The test of victory changes the blueprint of our life. When victory is so urgent question of “NO” should not be accounted for in anyway. “NO” promotes pessimism and nihilism. A nihilist is always a defeated soldier in the toughest battle of life. If we want to struggle for truth we should take the word “YES” as an amulet. Truth filters our life to perfection. Anyone interested to learn the truth of life should learn how to say “YES” even at the exposition of the bitterest frown of “NO”. Let all of us should try to go for “YES” in place of “NO” if we are keen on enjoying the significant beauty of life in all considerations. It is the preaching of time and age to turn a life in total magnanimity.