Winners don’t wait for chances, they take them

Every one of us is ambitious. We always try to translate our ambition into reality. It is simply because the ambition being achieved even partially is the pleasure in the walk of our life. We all want to be winners as the pangs of defeat are very hard to accommodate in the battle of life. Defeat gets our spirit squeezed and the win-win spirit of our life runs in recession. Receding win-win spirit enfeebles us both mentally and physically. Psychologically depressed personality retardates his motion in life and a motionless life is absolutely charmless and of no rhythm. That life is beyond contradiction meaningless what is devoid of charm and rhythm. A meaningless life is metaphorically the coffin of life to drag on. So to be a winner is the fundamental dictum of life.

Winners in life are not seen in abundance. They are very few in consideration though we all struggle for winning. Then what is the chemistry to achieve success as a notable winner? At the very outset it should be remembered that we must keep our appetite for winning always burning. We want to win, but our appetite for winning is always timid because we, if not all keep larger reliance on luck or destiny. We often quote an excerpt “As ill luck would have it.” But we forget luck is a relative term without having any particular logic to be taken into consideration to justify on the ground of validity. It is our imaginative fantasy. And strangely to be noted that we deal with this fantasy in absolute idleness. “It is possible provided luck permits” – we often spin round this illusive quotation when question of success is talked about. What is the benefit or utility to submit before destiny when it may not endorse our missionary achievement in complete undulation? On the contrary this biased as well as rubbish illusive thinking turns us a puppet in the hands of destiny.

Many of us are under the opinion that success is a matter of chance because it is related with possibilities and to convert possibilities into reality in terms of success is not always tenable. They establish that luck is a factor to count to achieve success because the chemistry of turning the possibilities always into success is not known to them. They believe it because many golden possibilities are found muffed up in the walk of their life. Naturally they surrender before destiny without trying to find out their own shortcomings in their input labour to propel them as winner. It is needless to iterate that these men become the cruel victim of frustration in due course and they are dropped from the winning track of life. These people wait for the chances to come as a favour of good luck. They never want to create the chance of their own. They are under the illusive conviction that opportunities to become a winner in the fray of life can never be generated, but they come as a gift to our life.

But one thing to be remembered that man is the architect of his own future. Waiting in a long queue for the opportunities to come as a way of bliss is absolutely a misleading concept. Discovering the hidden potential within us we should learn how to create chances to capitalize with marked positivity. Success never comes to us declaring aloud, on the other side it comes to us stealthily. We should learn how to decode the language of the arrival news of the opportunities. To tell the truth, it does not have any specific scientific language to be learnt in any institution. If we constantly stride ahead holding firm determination and dedication with a view to opening the scope of new opportunities in our life, opportunities of success come in renewal before us with a definite language decoding of what is not impossible. When we move we take the opportunities of winning with us, but it is our uselessness that we cannot identify those because of reliance on destiny. Appetite for winning at the teeth of all oppositions is the key to success.

Many of us are in the common understanding that great men do other things not all compatible to what we do. But it is absolutely a false notion. They do the same thing but in a different way. To think with a difference is the basic capital of their success. They don’t always want to swim in favour of the current because they are completely unwilling to endorse a blind conformity to traditional custom or convention. They want to generate a new stream of conception and idea without having any submission to destiny. We all know that “Fortune Favours the Brave.” Meeting the challenges of life courageously creates new openings in our life. Competitors on the track of new openings are always countable and that is why chances of winning always run in optimism. Pessimists wait for the chances to come; optimists create new openings for success.

Successful personalities never take up in issue as an impossible factor. If the matter is placed beyond the boundary of their knowledge they say, the problem is difficult but can be done. On the other side the unsuccessful personalities say that the problem is too hard to be done. Those who are unsuccessful they are basically nihilist and don’t want to see the light in any negativity. Successful men move along with the problem with an object to crack that, but unsuccessful men always keep a safe distance from the problem appearing relatively not to be sorted out. It is the basis difference in the characteristics between successful men and unsuccessful men, between the winner and the looser.

All of us are very much inclined to complete our missionary journey as a successful one. When this concept is the ultimate truth of life we should never wait for the opportunities to come as a way of obligation to destiny, better we should have an ardent urge for the new opportunities what we can capitalize in terms of success or winning.