Every relationship is futile

Relationship is definitely to be promoted in every step of life aiming at to keep up the harmony of life. In case relationship by breached, it initiates the discontentment of life. Dreams break for the generation of new dreams. It’s an entertaining as well as exciting game to build new dreams breaking the existing one. Relationship equally remains alive in the midst of breaking and rebuilding. In the midst of tug and war of life no relationship lasts lifelong. Then why do we build up relationship? That is a question to note.

Loneliness is the curse of life. None can live in deep solitude forever. Loneliness is accepted at times for better synchronization of thinking lay scattered here and there in turns of life. But nobody is there to live in permanent solitude. We all rely upon interaction of thoughts and ideas. So we need company. There raises the question of promotion of relationship. Knowing it fully well that every relationship in particular is short-living we build up relationship as a rule of human Characteristic and philosophy. When a relationship breaks on flimsy ground; we feel a serious aching of discontentment in our mind. Yet we are to build up new relationship as a natural practice in order to defer loneliness what unnerves us.

Accepting the importance and exigency promoting the relationship building attitude learning of experiences interprets something reverse. It preaches us that every relationship is futile as it does not have any address of permanency. Debate and counter debate may run hot on the controversial statement. But every of such debate and counter debate reconciles at a particular point of futility. Question of ratification of the conclusion of the debate with all justifiability is sure to be raised by theoreticians or critics as they always want to verify every opinion being framed in the light of reality and verification is always appreciated.

At the very outset a question will come up how you justify the futility of relationship. Relationship is an abstract element as it does not have any particular shape. It does not have any definite focal length with a specific point of focusing. That is why it is yet to formulate the way of building up relationship for ever. So many ifs and buts queue up in the road of possibilities of inventing that very formula of building relationship for ever.

If we want to build up relationship at least two are required. The mental setup of ours differs obviously. It is science and human psychology endorses it. None of us is the isotope of others. Naturally difference is inevitable. It is by default a shortcoming to build up a permanent relationship. Besides this, relationship builds up on requisition. Emphasizing priority on requisitioned relation is also serious bottleneck to renew relationship for good. Interest based relation is no relation at all. It is sure to tear out a day. It is the truth and tragedy of life.

If we place the society under a scanner it will authenticate that the society, we belong to, is the painful victim of relationship being strained. We are to go further deep into the problem to find out the cause of it. In the world of consumerism everything has been taken up as a commodity, to be purchased or sold in terms of money. Relationship is also not exempted from this idea. Rule of profit is also deployed there. It is heartrending to note that the relationship between husband and wife, mother and son or daughter, brother and brother even is becoming tacit. The relationship between two friends without any gender discrimination is the lesser the better to talk of. The relationship treating as commodity element can never be an objective relationship. Give and take policy out of self-interest spoils the charm and beauty of relationship. Relationship matures on the foundation of mutual faith and reliance. But the flowers of these two abstract elements, faith and reliance, can seldom get a chance of full blossom in the soil narrow interest.

For that reason in particular the flavour of relationship is now receding. Very few are interested to search the true relationship. Needless to mention they are also not finding out the cloning of relationship compatible to their mental inclination, It is well understood now that clash of interest dilutes the properties of true relationship. It can be imagined, but in reality that is close to impossibility. It has been marked with an ignominy that a prolong relationship gets spoiled out of very simple clash of interest. Interest based relationship is no relationship at all because it violates the true spirit and ethics of relationship. Relationship is traded, relationship is denied. Adjustment is not relationship. So, every relationship in all considerations is futile indeed.