Identity crisis

Identity is a quantify factor to count in every individual’s life. It nourishes our life to individual personification with a striking difference as well as distinction too. Our identity does not allow us to be missing in the midst of thronging crowd of unidentified identity. Naturally we are very much keen on establishing our identity in a separate way. Being identified as a notorious one is the darkest part of our life. It is a gross contradiction to ethical values of every human being. Our society discards this identity with an ignominy. The identity of a notorious one finds a place in the litterbin of history. None of us wants to go in permanent exile under the attraction of time or in the offence of not building an intimacy with time. Naturally we are spoilt for choice of our famous identity as infamy degrades our civility, morality and ethical human values to bottomless chasm. So to set up a never-to-underscore identity in high esteem in spite of all oppositions and back-pulling forces should be missionary target because it is the only elixir of our life in the days to come.

Bur today identity crisis is a major phobia of almost all of us. It does not appear before with a master stroke. If we consider it as a bolt from the blue we will be mistaken invariably. At the very outset we are to ponder over the valid reasons of identity crisis and how does it become more and more condensed in the perplexity of life? When most of the sensible persons solicit a transparent life in total admittance, when all disapprove the complexity of life, when life is a life is a life, confusion in life out of dented identity is very much painful to us. Yet the present ongoing within our social environment is desperately upbeat to dilute our identity because the identity being undermined pushes anyone to a roofless zone with no ray of hope at all.

If we sit to reconcile the reasons of identity crisis we are count so many factors impending due gravity. The appropriateness of true identity can never be the one way of traffic. It is reciprocal. A man who wants to set up his identity in reality will have to acknowledge the identity of others showing due respect. Exchange of identity with others glorifies the going to set up identity.  Ones identity stands as a bygone conclusion as a way of demeaning others identity even the least. But it is the go of the day to belittle others because the width of liberalized mind is becoming narrow out of meanness and selfishness. We are miser to give the due worth of identity of others duly acquired after prolong untiring labour and dedication as if it is established at the courtesy or favour of anybody else and thus we degenerate our soul. The justification of it is nevertheless understandable. Yet it is taking place in tandem in our society not as a rootless composition.

But what contradicts my concept identity is not a commodity to be bought or sold in the market. If the identity of anyone in particular runs out of any reason in crisis he must do his best to find out the reason and lapses behind the eroding identity. There is ample scope to revive that after a thoughtful rectification. There stands no need to do anything unorthodox or unethical that brings down his righteousness to the ground.

But the picture of today is completely overturned. Legality or justness is a counterfeit coin today. In the world of commodity market identity is also taken up as a granted commodity. But identity is not a commodity. It can never be purchased or sold at any price. A man earns it pie after pie out of his good deeds. It is a typical sentiment to be perceived. This infallible truth is forgotten today. Once the chair of identity is occupied that is to be kept even in a way where morality or immorality does not count because it is the era of rat race competition. What matters if there reveals no such acknowledgeable continuity of his work in support to his identity. I must have to keep my own position come what may. Who cares of the incompetence or incompatibility? So starts the fighting in total unbecomingness. Persons in gentility are becoming wounded every moment to witness and experience the unhealthy fighting. The enmity, the opposition, the incongruity, the identity keeping clashes is steadily on the rife. The credibility of human being is under recession.

None accounts for the outcome benefit of us. Self-identity of anyone in particular is incandescent in its own glory. It is impossible to destruct unless it is destroyed from within. A self-restraint and self-thoughtful man is well aware of it. One is not supposed to protect his own identity. His spotless identity is well fortified by others who recognize his identity. Those who are the victim of identity crisis are beyond doubt to be considered spineless, cold footed and worthless in the eye of future. None is to be shocked with their resultant outcome.