INTRODUCTION:-
Reality begins from here; if human character is placed under a
scanner want has no limit at all. In most of the cases ours is a nuclear family
as a go of the day. Parents in most of the cases is experienced, if their
mental setup is analyzed in the streak plate of reality, strangely ambitious of
their children where spontaneity and natural growth are forced to send in
exile. They are always upbeat; logic and arguments are least concerned in this
context, to turn their shortcomings of life being translated into success in
their children. There starts the rat racing where teenager students are
ruefully strangled to succumb.
Pressure OF
STUDIES:-
At the expense of any my baby must have to reach pinnacle of
success what will lead to prosperity. The parents of today are by heart
uncompromising to go for any kind of adjustment subject to their personal
ambition orbiting their children to be challenged in any way. The merit, response
to faculty development and intelligent quotient of their children are not taken
into consideration tragically. So comes the beginning of pressure of studies
from a very early stage. Capacity of brain, individual inclination reconciling
his mental setup – let all these elements plunge into a zone where
inconsideration is the only residual. Victims are none but the students from an
infantile stage to teenage. Their natural love and growth for study are
trampled because of extravagant pressure of studies. Pressure of studies in
school and that of even in home too retardate their natural spirit to go for
the better. It is really pathetic to convert them into robot of want.
ROLE OF
PARENTS:-
How do parents involve themselves into the rat race pertaining
to their children’ education – that’s also a point to note. How can they forget
their childhood days? Fact is next to denial, they were brought up in the lap
of spontaneity and naturalism. They enjoyed real taste of freedom in their
juvenility where mental recreation was never stumbled. Pressure of studies was
not then so tight gripped. Parents of those days used to allow their children
to grow up in usual course without any promotion to the concept additional
pressure of studies. Burden of studies to the children was then unwanted and
unformulated. Naturally creative outlets of students in those days were not
uncommon. Ironically be told, parents of today set themselves at poles apart subject
to abide by that philosophy. Can anyone of the parents of the day overrule the
backdrop of being reared up in the past with all natural trends living afresh?
But as a way of compulsion, never-to loose- tight grip attitude of the parents
of today, especially in the field of education, compels their children to run
into gasping. Sometimes we meet with a tragic end. It can neither be expected
nor be accepted. But hopelessly to quote, the monumental aspiration of the
parents encircling their children is the cruel order of the day.
EXPECTATIONS
IN FAST LIFE:-
Speed is the basic identity of life if that is analyzed from
different angles of vision. Because of rapid advancement of speed science in
the last century everyone wants to move with a jet speed to achieve target, question
of morality even being mortgaged to the greed of want. But mind and science can
never be weighed in the same spring balance as the characteristics of the two
hardly reconcile at a definite point. But sarcastically that is happening very
much today because of the indiscreetness of the parents. The expectations of
the parents are now gear-free. They want to see everything good and admiring in
a single unit. This evokes a definite contradiction to faculty development. A
student is a student is a student. Coupled with astral performance in the field
of education parents strangely demand flourishing of creative qualities evenly
in them. But development of creative qualities is not a quick fix. It can never
be had placing a demand. It can hardly grow within a prescribed format. It
comes from within as a way of inculcation and this easy truth is
unreachable to the parents of today.
COMPETITION,
A STANDING VICE:-
Abnormal
completion in every pocket of life is a standing vice of the day. As every
stepping in life is being threatened by gross uncertainty now there is no room
for spontaneous growth in a life as non-optional. Everyone plunges to explore
every possible field to build up specific identity because identity crisis is
now a malignant growth. The more the competition is becoming cut throat, the
more the condition of the teenager students is becoming really miserable. They
are now at their wits end how they will shape their life amidst so many
complexities of unprecedented competition. The dreadful spirit of never being
seen competition muffs up the real essence of life. So, be a human robot by
default.
RELATIONSHIP
TO PROMOTE:-
In order to come out of this severe crisis the prime requisite
is to promote the human relationship between the students and the parents with
no exemption to the teachers too. Before an execution of under thumb pressure
to teenager students either in school or in house everybody is supposed to
reevaluate his angle of vision in the bed of realistic judgment. Acerbic
relationship can never draw the optimum output from any individual student.
Congenial relationship begets miracle in many cases. That is why, to maintain a
soothing relationship with the teenager students is the basic task of parents
at home and teachers in schools.
CONCLUSION:-
It is enough realistic to take a pragmatic option not to induce
the diabolical sense of rat race competition in the mind of teenager students,
on the contrary they are permitted to grow up with their own naturalism and
originality where question of vigilance of the parents or guardians is not in
any way ruled out in order to confirm their success in the rocky run of
life.
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